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Most people don't feel stuck with money because they're lazy. They feel stuck because they're overwhelmed and afraid of making the wrong move.
Ryan Gonce is the founder of Bridgeline Wealth Strategies, a financial planner who has spent his career helping people build a plan instead of guessing their way through money. Ryan started investing at age 10 under his uncle's direction, and years later paid off $140,000 of debt with his wife Kathy before launching the career that grew out of that struggle.
In this episode, Ryan breaks down why the most common thread among people who are winning with money isn't income, it's that they don't overspend. He explains the pay yourself first framework, why setting up separate bank accounts removes the need to track every purchase, and why most fights about money aren't really about the money at all, they're about the order it leaves your account. We also get into pensions and whether they're actually as secure as people assume, the difference between a market fluctuation and a real loss, how much the average person actually needs saved for retirement by generation, and why people who work with a financial planner tend to retire three times wealthier than those who don't.
🔹 THE ORDER OF MONEY — Give, save, then live, and why this order prevents most financial fights
🔹 THE HOUSEKEEPER STORY — A budgeting negotiation between Ryan and his wife that says more about money than any spreadsheet could
🔹 THE DEBT PAYOFF — Seven years, $140,000, and the phone call that changed everything
🔹 CORE PLUS EXPLORE — Ryan's philosophy for how much risk is actually appropriate in your portfolio
This isn't about becoming a finance expert. It's about building a plan so your money stops being the thing you fight about and starts being the thing that gives you peace.
⏱️ What's Inside:
00:00 – Why people feel stuck with money
01:22 – What the average person coming in for help is feeling
02:53 – The one common thread among people doing well financially
07:00 – Getting a budget and paying yourself first
09:28 – The housekeeper negotiation
13:58 – Watching debt actually get paid off
18:05 – How Ryan's financial planning career started
19:38 – How much to actually be investing
23:04 – Why systems create peace in a marriage
26:26 – Is your pension actually safe?
32:18 – Silver, gold, crypto, and how much risk to take
36:26 – How much money you actually need for retirement
41:36 – What happens after you hit a financial goal
46:56 – Time in the market versus timing the market
48:23 – What happiness looks like to Ryan
Connect with Ryan Gonce:
Website → bridgelinewealth.ca
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