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More kids are anxious, overwhelmed, and struggling than ever before. What if the real issue isn't just what's happening to our kids, but what's happening around them?
Dr. Kenechukwu Ezeibe, known as Dr. Kenny, is a child and adolescent psychiatrist who has spent the last decade working with kids, teens, and families in Red Deer. In this conversation, he breaks down what it actually means to be a good parent, starting with a question most people never stop to ask: are parents even necessary, and what does nurturing a child's potential really require?
Dr. Kenny walks through the role grandparents and community play in raising resilient kids, why some children start tuning out their parents as early as age five (not just the teenage years), and how to tell if your child has been exposed to something they shouldn't have. He gets specific about the hardest conversations parents avoid, including when to introduce technology and social media, how to talk to kids about sex before a friend or a screen does it for you, and why he is personally cautious about kids and AI after hearing what one chatbot was willing to answer. He also opens up about the Sheldon Kennedy Centre of Excellence in Red Deer, the one stop facility where kids who have experienced abuse can meet with a psychiatrist, a therapist, and police in a single visit, and why a simple treasure chest in that building says more about hope than almost anything else in it.
🔹 THE BLANK CANVAS — Why Dr. Kenny believes every child is born with "preloadings," and how parents can identify them early
🔹 THE AGE THEY STOP LISTENING — Why it can start as young as five, and what to do about it
🔹 THE SCREEN TALK — When to introduce phones, social media, and AI, and the answer a chatbot gave that alarmed him
🔹 THE TREASURE CHEST — Inside the Red Deer centre built for kids who have experienced abuse, and why it inspired this episode's location
⏱️ What's Inside:
00:00 – What makes a good parent
02:00 – Every child is a blank canvas with preloadings
05:00 – Why two parents makes it easier, and support for single parents
06:30 – The role grandparents play in a child's success
09:00 – The age kids start tuning out their parents
12:30 – Breaking cycles from your own upbringing
16:00 – Discipline, boundaries, and avoiding both extremes
21:00 – Talking to kids about sex before someone else does
22:30 – Signs a child may have been exposed to something harmful
25:30 – The right age for phones, social media, and AI
32:00 – When to step in on someone else's parenting
34:00 – Inside the Sheldon Kennedy Centre of Excellence
39:00 – The treasure chest, and why it hit home
46:50 – Dr. Kenny's closing advice and what happiness means to him
Connect with Dr. Kenny:
🏥 Sheldon Kennedy Centre of Excellence → albertahealthservices.ca (search "Sheldon Kennedy Centre of Excellence Red Deer")
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